5 Reasons When You Should Say Goodbye to Your Casual Hook Up
Casual arrangements are supposed to be fun, but that doesn’t mean you should compromise yourself in anyway.
If you ever meet guys who try to push the boundaries, you should never back down.
After all, you should always safeguard your own interests and well-being. Over here, we share with you some reasons to wave a permanent goodbye to your Casual Fling.
Top 5 Reasons to Stop Casual Hook Ups
1. Partner Doesn’t Care for Safe Sex
He probably insisted that you both didn’t need condoms for his own pleasure and convenience.
Or, he thought he would be able to hold it in and offload it somewhere else so he doesn’t impregnate you.
However, now you lay awake, wide-eyed and scared as hell because you are hoping he didn’t give you a sexually transmitted disease or accidentally make a baby with you.
With douche bags like him, it is best that you wave them goodbye quickly because they do not have the basic decency to even use a condom to protect not just you, but themselves too.
Always use a condom. Never ever succumb and let them f*ck you without one, because you’ll really be f*cked over.
2. He Brags to His Friends About His Sex Victories
Ditch him this instant if he’s the kiss (or f*ck) and tell type.
You can totally visualize him at the bar sharing with his mates, how he charismatically and swiftly got you, and made love to you all night.
He often over-exaggerates his sexual powers and is just a prick through and through who you look like a total whore.
It’s either you kick in the balls the next time you see him or tell his bros that he wasn’t all that good in bed anyway.
Shame him and wave adios!
3. He Has too Much Partners
Wild thoughts start flooding your mind and you wondered how many women he has slept with before.
Did he have any protection on when he did and were these women promiscuous and had many other flings and lovers as well?
The more you dug the scarier things seem to be.
When things reach this point, it is best you stop this casual relationship as it may be detrimental to your mental health.
You may also wish to reconsider if Casual Relationships, Hookups and Flings are for you.
4. After Sex You Feel Dirty And Used
You just can’t wait to rush into the shower to wash off all the shame, guilt and dirt from all that physical intimacy you experienced during your sexual romp with your casual lover.
You legit feel dirty and are extremely ashamed of what you have done and know deep inside you that you deserve better.
Run because a good FWB isn’t supposed to make you feel this way.
5. You Start Having More Feelings to Him
And one day you realize that your casual fling is cute and that he would make a great boyfriend or your partner.
However, he has already made it clear to you right from the start that he only wanted sex and that there shouldn’t be any emotions or feelings involved.
This is the time to stop dead in your tracks and leave this relationship before you get hurt or your heart broken even further.
Conclusion
Always remember that no matter how great the sex is, you should never compromise on your own wellbeing and safety.
If you’re lacking discipline in this area, we’d suggest that you play out the negative consequences in your head over and over – unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases… you’d probably know better.